Bulletin Announcement: DuBois
Parenting Pointers 10-26-2025
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Halloween: beyond scary and sweets. As the “evening before All Saints Day,” Halloween reminds us of the holy people who have gone before us. Ask your child who their favorite saint is? Who are they named after? Who do they admire as a living saint? Learn together. http://www.catholic.org/saints/
Marriage Moment 10-26-2025
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When can sexual attraction towards someone other than your spouse be a good thing? When it alerts you to something missing in your marriage. Identify the quality that you’re drawn to and try to make it live again in your marriage. You don’t need a new person, just new eyes for your spouse.
A Family Perspective 10-26-2025
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In today's gospel, Jesus says, "…who humbles himself will be exalted." It's not the occasional big events, but the daily, humble routines of family life and "ordinary time" that create bonds and relationships that last a lifetime. Embrace this approach, and you'll see the difference.
10/26/2025 Respect Life Conference: Walking with Moms in Need, post-IVF ministry, hospice care and human trafficking
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Respect Life Conference 2025 “Be a Sign of Hope”
Catholic Charities Office of Social Justice and Life invites you to attend the 2025 Respect Life Conference. Presentations will be given on a variety of respect life topics: Walking with Moms in Need, post-IVF ministry, hospice care and human trafficking.“Be a Sign of Hope” Conference is Nov. 1 from 9:30 a.m.-2:30 p.m. (doors open at 8:45 a.m.) at Saint Mark Catholic Center, 429 E. Grandview Blvd., Erie. Presentations will be given on a variety of respect life topics: Walking with Moms in Need, post-IVF ministry, hospice care and human trafficking. Tickets are $15/person, $8/student, and scholarships are available. Registration includes lunch. To register: https://bit.ly/46kqLb2 For more information, please contact Social Justice and Life Director Elizabeth Slaby at ESlaby@CCIncErie.org or 814-824-1254.
11/2/2025 Give the Gift of Engagement Encounter
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Support a couple’s journey to a lasting marriage with the gift of Engagement Encounter—a weekend retreat focused on building a strong foundation for life together.
Next session: February 6-8, 2026 at St. Mark Catholic Center, Erie.
This retreat fulfills diocesan marriage prep requirements. Space is limited—register early!
Call the Family Life Office: 814-824-1261 or email: familylife@erieRCD.org.
Details and registration: https://www.eriercd.org/familylifeoffice/
“A wedding is one day, but marriage is for a lifetime.”
When it comes to online giving, ongoing Promotion Matters!
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Ongoing Promotion Matters! Online giving thrives when it’s visible and easy to access. Whether it’s through your parish app, website, or giving widget, regular reminders help parishioners stay engaged and make generosity a habit. Feel free to use this month’s message wherever it fits best: in your bulletin, on Facebook, or in your parish email. Little nudges, shared often, help build a culture of generosity.
As we gather to give thanks this Thanksgiving season, we invite you to consider offering a gift to [parish name]. Your generosity during this season enables us to carry on our mission and uplift our community Visit our parish website to make a one-time donation or to set up automated, recurring giving throughout the year. It’s quick, easy, and convenient when you visit our online giving page (__________________). Thank you for your generosity and support. Your contributions are a true blessing, and we are deeply grateful for your kindness.”
Parenting Pointers 11-2-2025
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Save your Words. Many conscientious parents talk too much. In general, people listen more closely to a few, well chosen words, spoken when needed, than to someone who has "diarrhea of the mouth." Your child is no exception. Do you talk too much? Too little?
Marriage Moment 11-2-2025
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Most people enter marriage hoping it will last forever. Yet sometimes, “forever” is cut short—by death or divorce. As painful as that loss can be, many find the courage to give love another chance.
A second marriage, however, often comes with added layers of complexity—especially when stepchildren are involved. If you're considering tying the knot again, do yourselves a favor: invest in a marriage preparation program tailored to your unique circumstances. It can help you navigate challenges, strengthen your bond, and save you from unnecessary tension down the road.
A Family Perspective 11-2-2025
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Today is All Souls Day. A special day when we remember and pray for all the people who have died, especially those who are in Purgatory. It's a time to think about our loved ones who have passed away and to pray that they are at peace with God. This day helps us remember that our prayers can help those who are no longer with us. Can you think of someone special who has passed away that we can pray for today?
Marriage Moment 11-9-2025
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It’s normal for couples to occasionally have arguments and fights. It means you are unique individuals who don’t always think alike. Good. But choose your battles carefully. Fighting over every little annoyance can just wear you out. What has been your most productive argument?
11/9/2025 Planning Your Wedding in 2026?
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Congratulations! Prepare for a lifetime of love with Engagement Encounter, a weekend retreat scheduled for February 6-8, 2026 at St. Mark Catholic Center in Erie.
This experience fulfills diocesan marriage prep requirements. Catholic and interfaith couples are welcome.
Call the Family Life Office at 814-824-1261 or email: familylife@erieRCD.org. More information and registration: https://www.eriercd.org/familylifeoffice/
“A wedding is one day, but marriage is for a lifetime.”
Parenting Pointers 11-9-2025
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Are you a model? Not the drop dead gorgeous magazine type model, but the kind of person you’d like your child to become? Is there anything you’d like to change about yourself - for the sake of your child? Consider your eating habits, your temper, your computer habits. Remember your child is watching.
Child Protection
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Child Protection and Creating Safe Environments- Know the Warning Signs of a Predator: Perpetrators are not waiting on the street to snatch kids; only 10% of sexually abused children are abused by strangers. 90% are abused by someone known and trusted by the child/child’s family. Perpetrators integrate themselves into everyone’s life, not just the child. They build relationships so that they are trusted to be alone with the child. One of the most important ways to ensure the safety of children in our environments is to know the warning signs of adults who present a risk of harm to children. Among these signs are when the person (1) always wants to be alone with a child in areas where no one can monitor the interactions, (2) allows a child to do things their parents would not permit, (3) is always more excited to be with children than with adults, and (4) discourages others from participating in activities involving kids. Visit www.eriercd.org/childprotection/ for more information and resources.
A Family Perspective 11-9-2025
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Jesus reminds us that the day will come for ‘the children of God’ where the complications of our earthly life will no longer matter. Just as parents recognize the sound of their children’s voices, when you call out “Lord," will God say, “Who’s there?”
A Family Perspective 11-16-2025
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Parenting is challenging with so many conflicting voices and influences. In today’s gospel, Jesus encourages parents to bravely give testimony and trust that He will provide the “wisdom” needed to be good parents. Remember, you are not alone in this journey; a loving Father is standing with you.
11/16/2025 Attention Engaged couples:
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Planning your wedding in 2026? An Engagement Encounter is scheduled for February 6-8 at St. Mark Catholic Center in Erie. Call the Family Life Office at 814-824-1261 or email familylife@erieRCD.org. Visit https://www.eriercd.org/familylifeoffice/ for more information and registration. EE satisfies diocesan requirements for marriage preparation. Catholic and Interfaith couples are encouraged to attend. Remember, “A wedding is one day, but marriage is for a lifetime.”
Marriage Moment 11-16-2025
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“Married couples: the grace of the sacrament of matrimony and the spiritual power of your vows are available to you daily.” (Follow the Way of Love) Remember, you’re not in this marriage alone. Call upon these realities and God’s power.
Parenting Pointers 11-16-2025
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Recently a child opened the door for me at the bank. Nice but not remarkable. Then I noticed her brother racing ahead to press the “Walk” button at the traffic light. Huh? It occurred to me that maybe they were having a “good deed contest.” Perhaps you’d like to propose this to your child. For one day, challenge your kids to a “good deed race.” It could become a marathon.
Parenting Pointers 11-23-2025
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As families travel and reunite over holidays like Thanksgiving, it can be a happy but stressful time. Remember the wisdom that Jesus told Martha as she complained about having to do all the work while Mary sat at Jesus’ feet listening, “Martha, Martha, you worry and fret about so many things…It is Mary who has chosen the better part.” (Lk 10:41-42)
A Family Perspective 11-23-2025
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Today’s gospel reminds us the Kingdom of Heaven is not like Disney’s Magic Kingdom. Admission to Christ’s Kingdom is paid with the currency of acceptance, forgiveness, attention to the poor, and love of one’s enemy.
Marriage Moment 11-23-2025
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Hopefully your spouse is never physically or emotionally abusive to you. If you don’t feel safe, however, and there is a violent pattern, get counseling or make an escape plan. If it’s non-violent and only occasional, look for what’s out of balance in your beloved’s life.
11/23/2025 Give the Gift of a Strong Marriage This Christmas
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Planning a wedding in 2026? Celebrate the season of love and hope by giving yourselves—or a couple you cherish—the gift of Engagement Encounter.
Next retreat: February 6-8, 2026 at St. Mark Catholic Center, Erie.
This weekend retreat fulfills diocesan marriage prep requirements and welcomes Catholic and interfaith couples.
Call the Family Life Office at 814-824-1261 or email: familylife@erieRCD.org. Register online: https://www.eriercd.org/familylifeoffice/
Make this Christmas truly meaningful—invest in a love that lasts.
Marriage Moment 11-30-2025
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In Advent we prepare for the coming of Jesus. How do you prepare for the coming of your spouse after an absence? Do you have any customs that help you reunite at the end of the day or a longer time apart? Anticipation is important.
Parenting Pointers 11-30-2025
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While family reunions are about reconnecting and playing together, it does take a lot of work to feed and house visitors. Yes, pay attention to relating with your family, but there are times to be a “Martha” (Lk 10:41) and help with the tasks of hospitality also. How can you help out today? Clean-up? Entertain young ones for a change? Fix something that’s broken?
11/30/25 Give a Gift That Keeps on Giving
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Planning a wedding in 2026? This Christmas, give the gift of a strong foundation for marriage with Engagement Encounter—a weekend retreat designed to help couples grow in love, faith, and commitment: February 6-8, 2026, at St. Mark Catholic Center, Erie
This retreat fulfills diocesan marriage prep requirements. Catholic and interfaith couples are welcome.
Call the Family Life Office at 814-824-1261 or email: familylife@erieRCD.org.
Register online: https://www.eriercd.org/familylifeoffice/
“A wedding is one day, but marriage is for a lifetime.”
Marriage Moment 12-7-2025
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Advent is a time of holy waiting. Practice waiting on your spouse today. Calmly wait for your spouse to arrive (instead of stewing if he or she is late). Or “wait on” your spouse in the sense of doing a favor for him or her.
Parenting Pointers 12-7-2025
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Advent is the season of waiting. Don’t hurry Christmas. Help your children practice patience this week. Use tools such as the Advent wreath or an Advent calendar to mark the time. Help your children wait by not celebrating before Dec. 25 – at least at home. (We can’t control the rest of the world.) Decorate slowly and in stages. Wait to do the tree. Minimizing time in stores and TV commercials helps. (See Christmas is Dec. 25.)
When it comes to online giving, ongoing Promotion Matters!
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Ongoing Promotion Matters! Online giving thrives when it’s visible and easy to access. Whether it’s through your parish app, website, or giving widget, regular reminders help parishioners stay engaged and make generosity a habit. Feel free to use either of this month’s message wherever it fits best: in your bulletin, on Facebook, or in your parish email. Little nudges, shared often, help build a culture of generosity.
Online giving - Winter Announcement (December 2025)
As we embrace the winter season and its serene beauty, we invite you to consider offering a gift to [parish name]. Your generosity during this time helps us continue our mission and support our community. Visit our parish website to make a one-time donation or to set up automated, recurring giving throughout the year. It’s quick, easy, and convenient. Thank you so much for your generosity and support. Your contributions are a true blessing, and we are deeply grateful for your kindness.
Online giving - Boost end-of-year giving for tax purposes (December 2025)
As the year comes to an end, it’s a wonderful time to reflect on the blessings we’ve received and consider how we can give back. Your support helps us continue our mission and make a positive impact in our community. Plus, your contributions can be beneficial during tax season. Every gift, big or small, makes a difference. Thank you for your generosity and kindness. We are truly grateful for your support.
12/7/2025 Give the Gift of Engagement Encounter
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Looking for a meaningful way to support a couple preparing for marriage? Give them the gift of Engagement Encounter—a weekend retreat that helps couples build a strong foundation for a lifetime together.
February 6-8, 2026 at St. Mark Catholic Center, Erie.
This retreat fulfills diocesan marriage prep requirements and welcomes Catholic and interfaith couples.
Space is limited—early registration is encouraged.
Call the Family Life Office at 814-824-1261 or email: familylife@erieRCD.org
Register and learn more: https://www.eriercd.org/familylifeoffice/
“A wedding is one day, but marriage is for a lifetime.”
Child Protection
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Child Protection and Creating Safe Environments- Bullying is defined as any unwanted aggressive behavior by another youth or group of youths that involves an observed or perceived power imbalance and is repeated multiple times or is highly likely to be repeated. 20% of youth ages 12-18 experience bullying. When adults respond quickly to bullying behavior, they send the message that bullying is not acceptable. There are ways parents can make a positive difference. Parents can educate themselves on the signs that a child is being bullied or is a bully. Parents should keep the lines of communication open with their child and model for their child how to treat others. Encourage your child to be inclusive by welcoming others to join their activities and groups. For more information on how to prevent bullying in your community visit www.stopbullying.org.
For additional resources visit www.eriercd.org/childprotectionParenting Pointers 12-14-2025
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As we wait for Christmas, it’s a good time to develop the virtue of patience as a parent. Focus on being patient with your children this week, whether they are infants who don’t want to sleep when you planned, toddlers who break things, teens who think they know everything, or young adults who are far away.
12/14/2025 Looking for the Perfect Christmas Gift?
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If your family is celebrating an upcoming wedding in 2026, consider a gift that lasts a lifetime—Engagement Encounter.
This weekend retreat helps couples prepare for a strong, faith-filled marriage and fulfills diocesan requirements for marriage in the Church.
Next session: February 6-8, 2026 at St. Mark Catholic Center, Erie. Space is limited—register early!
Call the Family Life Office: 814-824-1261 or email: familylife@erieRCD.org, more details and registration: https://www.eriercd.org/familylifeoffice/.
“A wedding is one day, but marriage is for a lifetime.”
Marriage Moment 12-14-2025
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“Be watchful! Be alert! You do not know when the time will come.” (Mk 13:33) Although death comes most often to the old, don’t put off words and acts of love for later. We don’t know how much time we have. Love your spouse today.
Marriage Moment 12-21-2025
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The winter solstice brings the longest night of the year. Warm it with candlelight. For some couples, however, dark nights bring depression. If you are among those who are currently struggling in your marriage, turn to the power of prayer as one resource.
Parenting Pointers 12-21-2025
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Christmas is almost over as far as our culture is concerned. Be counter-cultural. You don’t want to be a Grinch about Christmas, but you can steal some moments of quiet prayer in the dark with your children. Light three candles and pause.
12/21/2025 Engaged? Congratulations!
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Planning your wedding in 2026? Celebrate this joyful season by investing in your future together. Join Engagement Encounter, a weekend retreat designed to help couples build a strong foundation for lifelong marriage.
When: February 6-8, 2026
Where: St. Mark Catholic Center, Erie
This retreat fulfills diocesan marriage preparation requirements and welcomes Catholic and interfaith couples.
Call the Family Life Office at 814-824-1261 or email: familylife@erieRCD.org.
Register and learn more at eriercd.org/familylifeoffice.
“A wedding is one day, but marriage is for a lifetime.”
Give your relationship the gift of time, reflection, and connection this Christmas season.
Marriage Moment 12-28-2025
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“On the fourth Day of Christmas my true love gave to me, four calling birds...” How do you call your true love? Do you have a pet name? Say your spouse’s name with special tenderness today.
Parenting Pointers 12-28-2025
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Take time to savor each gift you open and appreciate the giver. Help your children learn that as they receive, so they are also responsible for giving. Choose a charity to support as a family. Remember, those who have less through prayer and a donation.
12/28/2025 A Meaningful Gift for the New Year
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Planning a wedding in 2026? Start your marriage with intention and faith. Join the Engagement Encounter retreat, February 6-8 at St. Mark Catholic Center in Erie.
This weekend fulfills diocesan marriage prep requirements and welcomes Catholic and interfaith couples.
Call the Family Life Office at 814-824-1261 or email: familylife@erieRCD.org
Register online: https://www.eriercd.org/familylifeoffice/
Give yourselves—or a couple you love—the gift of a strong foundation this season.
A Family Perspective 1-4-2026
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Today's gospel tells us that "all Jerusalem" was upset because "King Herod was deeply troubled." Similarly, in families, one person's negative attitude can ripple through and affect everyone. If you desire a peaceful and joyful home, it must begin with you. Embrace peace and joy, and let it spread to those around you.
Parenting Pointers 1-4-2026
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Consider doing something pro-active for the new year like starting the tradition of having a Family Night once a week. Start today by playing a family game together. Need more ideas for Family Nights? Check out Just Family Nights. A few simplified versions of Family Nights from the book are on the Family Activities part of my website.
Marriage Moment 1-4-2026
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January is get organized month. Pick a room, a book case, a file, or a drawer to organize. Often one spouse has more interest in organizing than the other. If so, this could be a gift to your spouse. If you both enjoy it, make it a date.
1/4/2026 It’s Not Too Late to Register for Engagement Encounter!
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Still planning your 2026 wedding? Make time for a weekend that will stay with you long after the big day. Engagement Encounter offers couples a chance to reflect, connect, and prepare for a lifelong marriage.
When: February 6–8, 2026
Where: St. Mark Catholic Center, Erie
A few openings remain—don’t wait! This retreat fulfills diocesan marriage prep requirements and welcomes Catholic and interfaith couples.
Call the Family Life Office at 814-824-1261 or email: familylife@erieRCD.org.
Register and learn more at eriercd.org/familylifeoffice
“A wedding is one day, but marriage is for a lifetime.”
Parenting Pointers 1-11-2026
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Apologizing isn’t a sign of weakness, it shows you are big enough to admit your mistakes and models an important skill for your child. Is there anything you’ve done (or not done) during the past year that an apology would help heal? Be a big enough to do it.
A Family Perspective 1-11-2026
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The words in today's gospel, "This is my beloved, with whom I am well pleased," are words every child needs to hear often. Affirmation is crucial for raising happy and confident children.
1/11/2026 Engagement Encounter Weekend
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Planning your wedding? Prepare for a lifetime of love with an Engagement Encounter retreat, February 6-8, 2026, at St. Mark Catholic Center in Erie.
This weekend fulfills diocesan marriage prep requirements. Catholic and interfaith couples are welcome.
Call the Family Life Office at 814-824-1261 or email: familylife@erieRCD.org, register at eriercd.org/familylifeoffice.
“A wedding is one day, but marriage is for a lifetime.”
Marriage Moment 1-11-2026
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“All I have is yours and all you have is mine.” (John 17:10) Although these are the words of Jesus to God the Father, they also reflect the total self-giving of spouses to each other. What possession might I find difficult to share with my spouse? Maybe there’s a good reason. Think about it.
Marriage Moment 1-18-2026
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Martin Luther King, Jr. spoke about equality between the races. In marriage we call this mutuality. Although spouses may take on different tasks and roles, your value is equal. Is there any area of your marriage you want to be more equal (chores, parenting, income, affection)? Ask.
1/18/2026 Openings Remain for Engagement Encounter!
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Next to your wedding day, this could be the most memorable weekend of your journey together. Engagement Encounter offers couples a chance to step away from the planning and focus on building a strong foundation for lifelong love.
When: February 6–8, 2026
Where: St. Mark Catholic Center, Erie
A few spots are still available—space is limited, so register soon! This retreat fulfills diocesan marriage prep requirements and welcomes Catholic and interfaith couples.
Call the Family Life Office at 814-824-1261 or email familylife@erieRCD.org.
Register and learn more at eriercd.org/familylifeoffice.
“A wedding is one day, but marriage is for a lifetime.”
Parenting Pointers 1-18-2026
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Not sure HOW to apologize. Try this formula: I’m sorry that I ________. I’ll try not to do it again. Then consider if there is any way to make amends (repair what you broke, compliment someone you gossiped about, etc.)
A Family Perspective 1-18-2026
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“Have you testified that Jesus is the Son of God?” If you're not discussing Jesus within your family, you're missing an opportunity to testify. Remember, if your actions don't align with your words, your children will see your words as meaningless.
Parenting Pointers 1-25-2026
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What can your family do to prevent abortion? Have you ever supported an unwed mother by providing clothes and baby needs? Can you provide childcare for a single mom who needs a break? If possible, let your children help.
1/25/2026 Openings Still Available for Engagement Encounter!
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Next to your wedding day, this weekend could be one of the most meaningful experiences of your journey together. Engagement Encounter invites couples to pause the planning and focus on building a lasting foundation for marriage.
When: February 6–8, 2026
Where: St. Mark Catholic Center, Erie
A few spots remain—space is limited, so don’t wait to register! This retreat meets diocesan marriage preparation requirements and warmly welcomes Catholic and interfaith couples.
Call the Family Life Office: 814-824-1261 or email: familylife@erieRCD.org.
Register and learn more at eriercd.org/familylifeoffice.
“A wedding is one day, but marriage is for a lifetime.”
A Family Perspective 1-25-2026
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When Jesus called his disciples, they responded 'immediately.' Parents often wish their children would do the same, but that's not how it works. Children grow into responsibility gradually. It's a process, much like learning to walk, achieved in small steps rather than all at once. Parenting requires patient encouragement.
Marriage Moment 1-25-2026
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Showing love is often about the little things – set up his coffee in the evening so it’s ready for him in the morning, send her a one line e-mail during the day, leave a sticky note on the mirror if you’re going out of town, ask about her day, kiss him unexpectedly just because…
A Family Perspective 2-1-2026
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It is within our family that we learn to be merciful, peaceful, and comforting to others. The Beatitudes of the Kingdom of God start at home and rely on you. Parents set the example.
2/1/2026 This Valentine’s Day, Give the Gift of Lasting Love
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Looking for a meaningful way to celebrate love this season? Engagement Encounter is a weekend retreat that helps couples prepare for a lifetime of commitment, connection, and faith.
February 6–8, 2026 at St. Mark Catholic Center, Erie.
Whether you're engaged or know a couple preparing for marriage, this retreat is a beautiful way to invest in their future. It fulfills diocesan marriage prep requirements and welcomes Catholic and interfaith couples.
Call the Family Life Office at 814-824-1261 or email: familylife@erieRCD.org.
Register and learn more at eriercd.org/familylifeoffice.
Celebrate love this Valentine’s Day with a gift that truly lasts.
A Family Perspective 2-8-2026
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Today’s gospel challenges us to be a “light” to our community. Parents illuminate the path through their actions, inviting their children to follow the light of their “good deeds.”
A Family Perspective 2-15-2026
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To experience the peace Christ promises we must let go of grudges, jealousy and feelings of being misunderstood, unappreciated or ignored. Peace and anger don’t mix. Today’s gospel warns us that if you want peace in our hearts and homes, we must rid ourselves of anger. Anger is too costly.
A Family Perspective 2-22-2026
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In today’s gospel, Jesus reminds us that it is not enough to provide only physical nourishment for our children; “one does not live on bread alone.” As we approach Lent 2026, let us be “led by the Spirit” to discover new ways to be moral guides for our children.
A Family Perspective 3-1-2026
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Transformation is a natural part of family life. When we commit to someone, whether it's a spouse in marriage or a child in parenting, we are pledging our support not just to who they are today, but to the person they are continually becoming.
A Family Perspective 3-8-2026
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Our children are like the Samaritan woman in today's gospel. They need more than just material things; they need the 'living water' that only good role models can provide. This ”living water” will teach them how to make decisions, take responsibility, respect themselves and others, and honor their commitments. With this, they will “never thirst."
A Family Perspective 3-15-2026
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Failure to forgive blinds us to the goodness in others. Lent offers a chance to cleanse our blind spots in the pool of forgiveness. As Jesus says in today's gospel: “Go, wash, and see."
A Family Perspective 3-22-2026
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Our families often get caught up in chasing things we believe will bring us happiness. Jesus' words to Lazarus, “Come out,” are also meant for us. In this fifth week of Lent, “untie” yourself and break free from unnecessary possessions.
A Family Perspective 3-29-2026
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The cruel death of Jesus shows us that bad things can and do happen to very good people. It also reassures us that God is present during our suffering. While bad things happen, God never abandons us.
A Family Perspective 4-5-2026
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Today's gospel recounts how several people arrived to find the tomb where Jesus was buried now empty. What does an empty tomb signify for your family? Is it a symbol of failure, loss, and defeat, or one of victory, life, and resurrection? Scripture tells us that Jesus “had to rise from the dead.” Likewise, families must rise above disappointments and embody the spirit of Easter all year long.
A Family Perspective 4-12-2026
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“Whose sins you forgive, are forgiven” signifies that the Kingdom of God begins in your home, where children learn the paths to peace through the example set by their parents. Holding onto grudges only leads to greater misery over time.
A Family Perspective 4-19-2026
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In today's gospel, the disciples were so downcast on their journey home that they didn't recognize Jesus’ walking with them. Similarly, in our homes, we can become so overwhelmed with responsibilities that we fail to see God with us. Today's gospel encourages us to pause and open our eyes to 'see Christ' in each other.
A Family Perspective 4-26-2026
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In today's gospel, Jesus declares, “I am the way,” and warns that anyone offering “another way” to happiness is “a thief and a bandit.” These are strong words! Don't be swayed by society's sales pitch for happiness. Instead, look to your loved ones, where God is present, calling you by name and leading you to abundant life.
A Family Perspective 5-3-2026
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Jesus tells us in the gospel, “Where I am going, you know the way.” This means that God is within each of us, in our relationships, and in our homes. The vocation of the Christian family is to live as though their lives are a roadmap to heaven. Guide each other, encourage each other, and love each other, following the way of Christ.
A Family Perspective 5-10-2026
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In today's gospel, Jesus prepares his disciples for his departure. Family life is filled with departures and transitions. As we mature and grow older, we constantly move from the familiar to the unknown. Today, Jesus assures us that we are not alone in these transitions: “I will not leave you orphans. I will come to you.”
A Family Perspective 5-17-2026
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Just as Jesus appointed apostles, He also appoints parents to represent Him in the family. “Make disciples of your children, baptizing and teaching them all I have taught you. Don't worry, I am with you always."
A Family Perspective 5-24-2026
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Like the disciples in today's gospel, there are times when we shut the doors of our hearts to people or events, creating emotional distance. However, permanent distancing is harmful and prevents us from experiencing the PEACE that Jesus offers us today.
A Family Perspective 5-31-2026
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Just as the Father 'sent His Son into the world,” parents send their children into the world “so that the world might be saved.” This is the missionary role of the Christian family. Your family is a school where your children develop convictions that enable them to make a difference in the world. Parenting is an awesome responsibility, not for the weak or transient.
A Family Perspective 6-7-2026
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Parenting is a Eucharistic activity because, from the first moment of conception, children receive life from us. Without our self-sacrifice, our children would not have life. This is the paschal mystery of parenting: Christ is present in each act of self-sacrifice.
A Family Perspective 6-14-2026
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The "troubled and abandoned" children in our world are like "sheep without a shepherd." Today, Jesus asks that our hearts be moved with pity for these children. He reminds us, "Without cost you received; without cost you must give. Go to the lost sheep."
A Family Perspective 6-21-2026
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In today's gospel, Jesus says "Do not be afraid" three times and reminds us that "all concealed secrets will be revealed." Do not fear acknowledging problems in your family. If they remain "hidden in darkness," they can "destroy body and soul." Healing, understanding, and hope are found only "in the light" of openness. "Do not be afraid."
A Family Perspective 6-28-2026
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Today's gospel challenges us to resist the individualism of our culture. Everything we are and have is a pure gift, meant to be shared, especially with the "lowly ones." What has been freely given must be freely shared, with no strings attached.
A Family Perspective 7-5-2026
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Today's gospel emphasizes the call to be missionaries. Just as Jesus accepted his mission, parents embrace the mission of raising a family. This exhausting and challenging vocation is not one they face alone. Jesus invites us to find solace in Him, saying, "Come to me, and I will give you rest."
A Family Perspective 7-12-2026
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The stress and anxieties of family life can be like "thorns that choke off" any opportunity to reflect on God's presence in our lives. In today's gospel, Jesus "went out of the house" to connect with the people He loved. Take five minutes each day to appreciate the people you love.
A Family Perspective 7-19-2026
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Parents instill values in their children, hoping that the tiny seeds of honesty, respect, commitment, and fidelity will grow with them and eventually become "a safe haven" for many.
A Family Perspective 7-26-2026
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In today's gospel, the man "sold all he had" for the treasure he found. Family relationships are true "treasures" that demand our total personal investment. Dedicate yourself fully to the "treasure" of your family.
A Family Perspective 8-2-2026
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The apostles were likely being practical when they asked Jesus to "dismiss the crowds" so they could buy food. However, Jesus knew that when we place our trust in the Father, there is always enough, even with just five loaves and two fish. Trust is the bridge to miracles.
A Family Perspective 8-9-2026
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The demands of family can be so overwhelming that walking on water might seem easier. When Jesus felt pressured, He dismissed everyone to be "by Himself and pray." When you feel overwhelmed and stressed, find a quiet place and surrender your feelings to the Lord, using Peter's prayer from today's gospel: "Lord, save me."
A Family Perspective 8-16-2026
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The mother in today's gospel persisted, even when she was ignored and insulted. She would do whatever was necessary to bring relief to her child. Parenting is not just about bringing life into the world; it is also about daily sacrifices for your children.
A Family Perspective 8-23-2026
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Like Jesus in today's gospel, we are perceived by others in various ways. However, those who know us best are usually our own family. Who do they say you are?
A Family Perspective 8-30-2026
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Relationships exist in a delicate balance. When one person changes, it requires an adjustment in the relationship. In today's gospel, Jesus announced a change, and Peter resisted. Sometimes, those we rely on for support can become obstacles. Jesus told Peter, "You are an obstacle to me."
A Family Perspective 9-6-2026
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The key word in today's gospel is "listen." We cannot change another person—not alone, not with others, and not even with a whole Church. All we can do is state our position, and if they listen, they can take the necessary steps to change themselves. Change comes from within.
A Family Perspective 9-13-2026
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Holding onto a past wrong and hoping for a better past is futile. We must move on by accepting that we were unjustly treated and that it won't be corrected. This doesn't mean we condone the injustice; it means we refuse to let it control our lives any longer. Forgiveness is essential for living a healthy life in the present.
A Family Perspective 9-20-2026
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Today, Jesus asks us, "Why are you idle? Go into my vineyard." Our family is the vineyard entrusted to us, as mentioned in today's gospel. Successful families are built by "laborers" who actively work on their relationships, not by spectators who merely watch from a distance.
A Family Perspective 9-27-2026
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In today's gospel, Jesus asks, "What is your opinion?" We often mistake our opinions for dogma or fact, but they are merely our perceptions or feelings about a situation. Arguments over opinions can cause significant divides in families. Tread lightly on the opinions of others; the heart you break may be your own.
A Family Perspective 10-4-2026
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Every family faces difficult times that can either unite or divide them. These hardships, which we might quickly reject, have the potential to become the unifying "cornerstone" where we drop our pettiness and defenses, coming together through a common bond and love for one another.
A Family Perspective 10-11-2026
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Today's gospel speaks about "unworthy wedding guests." What makes a "worthy" guest? Presence and presents are not enough. The greatest gift we can offer is our support to the couple as they journey through life together, navigating the inevitable fields of disappointment. Reflect on the weddings you have attended. Have you been a "worthy guest?"
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Use this in your 08/31/2027 bulletin
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